Couples Counselling

Relationship Therapy for Deeper Connection

Couples counselling helps partners navigate relationship challenges, improve communication, and deepen emotional intimacy. Using psychodynamic principles, we explore unconscious patterns that affect the relationship and work toward greater understanding and connection.

Understanding Couples Counselling

Couples counselling provides a safe, neutral space where both partners can explore their relationship dynamics, communication patterns, and emotional connections. Rather than focusing solely on problem-solving, this approach helps couples understand the deeper psychological patterns that influence their interactions.

Using psychodynamic and Jungian principles, we examine how early attachment experiences, family patterns, and unconscious projections may be affecting your current relationship. This deeper understanding allows for more meaningful and lasting change.

The goal is not just to resolve immediate conflicts, but to help couples develop greater emotional intimacy, authentic communication, and a more conscious relationship with each other.

Couple in peaceful connection

How Couples Therapy Can Transform Your Relationship

Develop deeper intimacy and more authentic connection

Enhanced Communication

Learn to express needs, feelings, and concerns in ways that deepen understanding

Emotional Intimacy

Rebuild emotional connection and develop deeper levels of intimacy and trust

Conflict Resolution

Develop healthy ways to navigate disagreements and resolve ongoing conflicts

Sharn - Couples Therapist

My Approach to Couples Work

I work with couples from a depth psychology perspective, recognizing that relationship dynamics often reflect unconscious patterns learned in early relationships. Understanding these patterns allows couples to choose more conscious ways of relating.

Rather than taking sides, I help each partner understand their own contribution to relationship dynamics while developing empathy for their partner's experience and perspective.

We explore how projection, attachment styles, and family-of-origin patterns may be influencing your relationship, creating space for more authentic and intimate connection.

What to Expect in Couples Therapy

Session Structure

  • 50 minute couples sessions
  • Weekly or fortnightly appointments
  • Occasional individual sessions if needed
  • Flexible duration based on your goals

Therapeutic Focus

  • Safe space for honest communication
  • Exploration of relationship patterns
  • Development of empathy and understanding
  • Building emotional and physical intimacy

Is Couples Therapy Right for Your Relationship?

Couples counselling can help if you're experiencing:

Communication difficulties or frequent arguments
Loss of emotional or physical intimacy
Trust issues or infidelity concerns
Recurring conflicts that never get resolved
Feeling disconnected or like roommates
Major life transitions affecting your relationship
Blended family challenges
Different values or life goals
Want to deepen your connection
Considering separation but want to try therapy first

Ready to Strengthen Your Relationship?

Taking the step to seek couples therapy shows courage and commitment to your relationship. I provide a safe, supportive space where both partners can be heard and understood. Contact me to schedule an initial consultation.

Both partners welcome • Confidential environment • No judgment